I have 5 years old boy child. we commited mistakes..i am asking allah to forgive everythingis wat he doing is right in islam?? Youre better off coming to terms with this and accepting it than having false, purile notions about men.The best way to combat these thoughts are to apply the advice given in the first three secrets: Does this mean hell never take a second wife if you do these three things? There are no contradictions in Islam at all,no loopholes.if ur husband loves you so much and u re not in the mood to be intimate he ll not go to bed angry because u ve nt agreed,.There should be understanding btw u.it is not irrespective of your feelings. the holy quran declares that Allah subhana allah wa taaal permits him to take up to four wives as long as he gets all the necessary protocol boxes ticked. Dua and her husband are a perfect married couple in the eyes of their family, but her life turns upside down when her husband seeks her permission to marry another woman. This pattern may be repeated when you are I wish people didnt have to deal with such unfair treatment in relationships. How can he ever cheat on me with the dami man. (Verse 4: 129), 4. How about us woman looking at other man at some point in our lifes?.. This is got to be one of THE best articles Ive read about Muslim couples. InshaAllah we all better ourselves and our relationships. (Narrated by Muslim). It goes so far in Islam that if a woman wishes to perform an optional fasting (not the ones in Ramadan) she NEEDS to have her husbands permission! A father should be responsible for the life of his children even though he has separated from the mother. According to Talmudic law, Abraham had 2 wives, and Solomon had hundreds of wives. fallen into a trap of the shaytaan, because he has made you attractive to The unending complaints of adultery, abuse and bad behavior is considered normal these days. means of entering Paradise, as it says in the hadeeth narrated by Ibn 4. I told him if he decide that he will take another wife then Ill be out, he then can go and marry another one to get the two wives that he desires, as I dont want to live my whole life thinking and worrying about it. Islam prefers giving women the honourable position by permitting the first option and disallowing the second. There would be more than four million females in Great Britain 5 million females in Germany and nine million females in Russia alone who would not be able to find a husband. said to her: Enter Paradise from whichever of the gates of Paradise you Very few. It might be years later but I had to leave my reply. 7. We had 5 kids and he had been an active Leader in our Catholic Church organization. Not fair! After an argument or disagreement over certain issue women may be adamant and come up with excuses not to have sex whereas men are usually easy to ignore what has happened and can easily get involved. arent they all superficial? When I thought that life would last forever and that nothing will ever change. She left her home,bears your name,married to you,people know her by your name,and till the end she would be known by your name,still you would doubt her being not loyal to you or obedient? He never mentioned a second wife again and I was happy with that. But being responsible caring wives and homemakers we dont act on suc impulses. "I was busy and studying. yeah sure , hell like that. For this reason, there are more deaths among males as compared to the females during paediatric age. You will be held accountable. If your husband has a busy routine, dont bother him with small quarrels of the day. Im not married yet but hearing stories like this really discourages me from wanting to get married in the future. You cant know this because no one knows whats in the mind of every man. After 2 weeks, a group of ladies from my family went to my in-laws house for patch up, but in front of them my husband again repeated the divorce words three times. Just because majority of muslim men do doesnt mean all do. The destiny which almighty Allah has written for you in this life, The test he would put a person to see his or her patience. Men should also remember this aspect of our role model Prophet Muhammad (SAW) that he didnt marry any other wife till Khadija RA, the first wife was alive. Hmmmm. Second wife! (3) Dispute over marriage between the lady and her husband.. Marriage contract involving an unidentified woman: Death, if the.In general, the marriage of a married woman, or of . They avoid disagreements and quarrels and leave the wife ignorant of their second marriage as if this marriage just belongs to the man and has nothing to do with the wife. If he spends the night angry with her that means if you can convince him then he will not be angry and no angels curse you. Fee amanillah. I have to stay with my parents. It really bothers me. He loves his step mother more than the one to whom he is born. i dont want to leave him.and i can make my parents me to marry him.but he is not ready for thatwhat will i do? A woman who loves her husband and fears losing him. It is been so hard on me. He never defends you but always defends the person that u have a problem with? 5. To read that title he thinks about other women and then the next one.. he wants to make you happy 3) Its one of the things that will actually also keep the man satisfied. Women crave respect and most definitly deserve it, communicating with your wife is a form of respect. coz its natural, most people are inclined toward people who show concern, respect etc over them. If I found out my husband was thinking about other women I would divorce him straight away. God bless you. JazakAllah to the author, thank you!!!! Women want physical intimacy too. Just because man is ALLOWED to take a second wife, doesnt mean he should. salam,im sure the article written is in good faith n might help some but by God centuries have passed in trying to teach women how to make their husbands happy,not that theres no more need 4 it yet its about time as per the holyQuran when women will ask what my fault was!!! And whoever disobeys Allah and His Messenger has certainly strayed into clear error. With a marriage will create offspring and kinship ties. Intention to worship and remember Allah taala. Below is one of the verses of the Quran that explains this. not want to and he still goes ahead with it? U have to attract him in such way that,he should be afraid to listen the word DIVORCE from your mouth. theres a thing called devil n he took the better of my husband n he repeated himself in his act of betreyal.god damn it it hurts.n its all this male mustangs fault.respect,huh!!! Salam Aleykum, I was thinking the same thing. All praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger. This article is hilarious and so made for men who need to control and own their wife. jazakallahu khayr. Would you rather he cheat and have haram sex ??? From your question, it may be understood that Allaah has Shaina i advice u 2 believe totally in Allahs word otherwise u will be among unbeliever, Allah as d creator know what is good us, Man are allow 2 marry more than one wife and we all see how female are very very Plenty than male i pray u will not be among 39 or 40s years ladie who av not sure of a particular man. They like to get it on with as many women as they possibly can, like my friends ex-husband. .you can teach manners n respect n every thing else to a woman cause u feed her but who teaches the wild horse running around in the greed to conquer the world.my ears are sick n tiered of listening to the word peer pressures.exposer n all that crap.by God theres a thing called shaitan n we all have to fight it. So do not do this. People want things their way with other people so will only use that part of Islam that suits them. You need to make taubah and try to learn more. It's not just about love The Prophet, may Allah bless him and give him peace, said, "No believing man should hate a believing woman. Ok guys , what I have to say has almost nothing to to with the article, and I apologize.I was just wondering what should a single, unmarrigiable women do when the desires that Allah Swt have her takes over.like I am under the marrigiable age. It was only later, that the Hindu priests and the Christian Church restricted the number of wives to one. To use the same rules for the current century really doesnt make sense. I could not find the name of the author for this article. And its so true toom some times I feel un loved by my husband and I always feel he doesnt share things with me. Sura Nisa Chapter 4. There are many going on right now as we speak, many man who die in war, many widows and children left alone, many divorces and broken families, more and more man who turn out to be gay. So righteous women are devoutly obedient, guarding in [the husband's] absence what Allah would have them guard. I have always thought that I would never allow my husband to marry again, however this article has reinforced wat was in my subconscious which is; who am I to dictate to my husband against the word of the quraan so after reading this I now admit to my acceptance if I should ever experience a case like this,, who knows I may just find myself in the shoes of the second, third or fourth wife. He isnt a mind reader. The Quran does state that the husband is allowed to take up to four wives but only if he has the means to provide for them. I find it absolutely appalling to expect a Muslim girl whose been chaste all her life and hasnt had any such contact with men to all of a sudden in one night open up completely to her new husband! Answering your question, Sheikh M. S. Al-Munajjid, a prominent Saudi Muslim lecturer and author, states: Please brother & sisters do not start passing judgement in haste. by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Jaami, no. This commandment is written in the same verse in Surah An-Nisa. The mind is what you will live with for fifty years. There have been cases where girls went away from their family, are alone away in a foreign country and facing difficult circumstances with no way out. honestly: 1.If this young man is righteous, Here is an explanation of one verse of the Quran. I could be a second wife because those feelings of not being enough would not arise. Likewise, if he satisfies it lawfully, he is rewarded. Why? (4) Will give birth to virtuous children. Based on this, it is not permissible for you and this evil If you're loyal to your husband, than rest assured he'll be loyal to you. We are true Sunnah Muslims Hamdullah. High regard for women you have there. All men are different and do expect different things, same goes for women, marriage is about communicating, you are not just two people that meet in day to have sex and thats it, where is the communication, find out what YOUR husband wants and not what this idiot wants. 5. Firstly, I would like to thank the author of this post for his sharing the knowledge. I agree with you may Allah forgive us and help us have a better understanding of our deen. Daeef al-Jaami al-Sagheer, no. may allah give woman more strength to hold problem in the world dont forget allah have made you lovable and beautiful creature to solve problem itself be happy allah will solve your problem. Now that I am on the receiving end, I realized how wrong I was in denying another woman this PRIVILEGE of a husband. 4787)). During our engagement period I found out that I cannot live with this man I spoke to my mother about it but she refused to listen to me. I did not find anything to be forced. second wife will bring a special reward over and above that, for several Goes both ways really. We have been married for 18 years. There is no other option. Bukhari and Muslim. But you cant force him. - Tabrez Ahmed Jan 3, 2013 at 8:13 1 Rasulullah said that love is in the hands of Allah, and you can do nothing. Our words can be deleted from here but not from THERE. Similarly, its unfair for men to expect their wives to behave like Aisha (RA) and his other wives (RA) did. Although this dream does not usually mean what is been portrayed in the dream, this could be a result of something which happened in the past finding its way back to our present life. But you decide to endure bcos of ur kids n bcos he always threaten to collect them from you. My husband converted to Islam 7 years and I converted 4 years ago. When a man calls his wife to his bed, and she does not respond and he (the husband) spends the night angry with her, the angels curse her until morning. Which is more than enough of a condition to stop most men from marrying number 2. I think you need to learn more about Islam, and pls dont argue over ALLAHER command. where it is not clear if the matter is good or bad, and the Muslim does not Moreover, both women are siblings or have the same blood relations with your wife before. I TOO WAS NOT FEELING THAT AT ALL BUT UPON FARTHER STUDING AND PRACTICING AL- ISLAM FOLLOWING THE QURAN WE HAVE TO ACCEPT THIS PONIT BLANK, excellent article for the wives of all married men, and true, This is a good advise for sisters in Islam and also teaches brothers little on how to treat their wife in a right way, Assalaam all The person I was getting married knew I never wanted to marry him and I dislike him from my heart and I can never love him. In fact, his step mother forced her husband into second marriage to have children). Or lets say what if she has average desire and she wants her husband every night nt just 50% or 33% or 25% of the nights. The problem is men hide their second marriage from their first wife which itself is a evidence of unjust behaviour which means he shouldnt go for second marriage as he is unable to do justice. This is a wonderful piece Masha Allah to whoever posted this. And constantly comparing us to Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) aint helping.Of course, we are supposed to emulate him (pbuh) as much as we can. This idea is put forward in the Quran where Allah says: Men are in charge of women by what Allah has given one over the other and what they spend from their wealth. Soon all went to waste and we started losing everything one by one. Yell and scream at her. I loved my first and my second and till date i remember them and i cry for them. 0.001%. Ive sat and told my husband how i feel and he does nothing, Ive done nothing but encourage my husband in the nicest possible way to do something with his life, run his own business etc but it falls on deaf ears now i have resorted to confiding in my family when Im down and cant take no more. 1. Why do you think men are willing to leave their jobs and risk starting a business? I will be sure to remember all the other useful information in this article in my marriage Insha Allah. Questions cannot be asked through this form. responding to great kindness and good treatment with a great wrong and All he used to do was he was busy in his own world. Am I not good enough? The least of the 7th pts however is #4. I need some advice, it is a sin for a married muslim man to have a relationship with a Christian white woman or is it their right to have a girlfriend ? I got really hurt and extremely disappointed. The practice of polygyny continued till Rabbi Gershom ben Yehudah. Many people are under the misconception that it is compulsory for a Muslim man to marry more than one wife. Im not even married but IN SHA ALLAH Ill marry the girl I love & the girl for whom Im praying. Other women and couldnt wait to taste a man as well he told me about, that he desires men too. Dear sheikh, As-Salaam `Alaykmu wa Rahamtu Allah wa Barakatuh. That should really be the last stage. May Allaah make it easy for us to practice.InshaAllaah, when I get marriied! Here is the sound of chapter 53 that governs the marriage of women who are pregnant due to adultery. This is the Islamic view though. I think the issue nowadays is women are raised with the idea that men are more perfect than they are, and more like women. In Islam, limited polygyny is permitted and polyandry is completely prohibited. They are just doing it for their selfish reasons. If your men want to marry let them and they will get their justice from Allah they clearly didnt love you in the first place. we have to do so. I am a practicing Muslim by birth. And seek only to please Allah subhana watala. Perhaps you noticed something about your husband's behavior in real life, which triggered your suspicion in a dream. In Islam, this is allowed in the second marriage. After all my warnings and threats of leaving he abandoned the idea. (i`m not pregnant) Well you should about that before gething married then, would you rather him go to someone else. And when he asked me to try threesome, that was it! As his wife, you also need to contemplate if this is something you are willing to tolerate, adjust to, and understand. Shall I divorce him. Maybe even noble- of mind in the very least. well sis dont get married then. If You Nudge Him, He Can Be A Better Muslim InshaAllah Allah will reward you for all your patience and effort. according to islam wat is the solution for this? So, now YOU move away from in front of the TV and make ME a sandwich. If the conditions for a second marriage are right according to the Shari`ah, he can legally go ahead and marry. There may be polygamy in order to spread Islam. I am shocked by this backward/baseless thinking. [al-Zumar 39:10], According to the hadeeth: No fatigue, nor disease, nor It does not store any personal data. If anything, she is going to think U cheated or did something wrong if U keep throwing dunua at her, Correct 100%..if the above post is giving u everything with reference and inspite of this you are not accepting it means you are zionistand woman dont make your own rules and laws this world is hell due to yours silly thinkings got it, Subhan Allah..JazakAllah,.. Second, is your question about polygamy, as to whether the first wife has a right to object to her husband's marrying another woman. But it must be received and acted upon, no excuses. I think the author has done a nice job. 2.If this person really loves 100355. He has a large group of friends. A good wife is pressures, a husband sometime forgets what his got. In Western society it is common for a man to have mistresses and/or multiple extra-marital affairs, in which case, the woman leads a disgraceful, unprotected life. ALLAH says us many things to do and each an everything for our betterment. OK, he won't cheat because it will be a legitimate marriage instead of an affair, but isn't it still really bad? You never know a persons situation until you are in it. I am a woman but I know men very good . Seeing your husband marrying his brother's wife in a dream may symbolize the feelings that you both . The hadith is meant for two people who are married and are being the best husband and wife to one another. And I absolutely adore our baby, more than I ever . This is not an issue for me personally, but I really find this to be incredibly sexist (no pun intended) and its as if the womans feelings are totally unimportant when her husband is horny. One of the ways in which you can ward off these devilish Thus, your situation with your husband needs further investigation. i have done all types of treatment but no result. What, he gave her Mahr money, so now he owns her and shes his sex slave? @Marij Usmani Our minds collect things and remember much better than we think. No much hope for Islam if goes that way It is his conduct with his wives and living a life according to Islam that will determine where he ( and all muslims) will end up. we can not question ALLAH. To explain further: if a Muslim woman prays istikhaarah about I have updated the question to add this generality. One of the blessings that Allaah bestows upon some spouses is My husband thinks that as he left this lady, then his condition becomes worse. I am not certain were in the world you are situated but living in the west and all of the Sexual propaganda that we are bombarded with is a great fitna. If you are as you say a devout muslim how can you say of something Allah has allowed that it disgusts you?? Its ridiculous. Wallahu alam. with them)] for you and you are the same for them. (fyi their needs, desires, and emotions may be different from ours but their still there). family life, and the man wishes for a wife with whom he can live in peace, Unfortunately, so many men (most traditional men, not truly religious men) use this as an excuse to be philanderers. (ii) Mustahab i.e recommended or encouraged, (iv) Makruh i.e not recommended or discouraged. We dont need a list like this from some fool to tell us how to treat our husband or future husband. I just wanna say any believing women would except that her husband has taken a second wife. I dont have my parents connection.. so I dont have any moral support. And the wrongdoers will get their due punishment as well. that he got a positive result?! husbands doing haraam things than to their marrying another woman in a Having dinner & lunch with your wife together makes her feel more special too. Your dream is a premonition for a memory and brain power. If and only if she did this in the marriage contract, then he is not allowed to do that without her permission. The only thing more difficult than translating thoughts to words is translating feelings to words. Sometimes we should just submit to what Allah made it permissible and what he forbids as its part of worshipping him. Sister Fatima, a husband is never permitted to force his wife to have sex with him. I love my husband so much that I can not see myself sharing him with another woman. Out of them, nadima was married for four years. This does not mean husbands have the right to force their wives to engage in sex. JUST KIDDING! (interpretation of the meaning): Only those who are patient shall receive their reward in Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullah. Actually, this can be part of the marriage contract. Are you close to them? She will ONLY be cursed if her husband is angry. You sir are correct issue at hand is that most people here are A. If youre loyal to your husband, than rest assured hell be loyal to you. So you are in essence saying that you are disgusted with something Allaah allowed and the Prophet peace be upon him, practiced. If you are married only for treasure, then you are among the losers. All people (expect those nonhumans) deserve respect. Based on this piece, the man just wants a subservient slave who will try to please his dirty need, even his lust for other women, without expecting any reciprocation. So, women validate and massage your husbands ego but its alright if you feel neglected. It's unpleasant and uncomfortable to be admonished. Nura [not her real name] is a 42-year-old Kenyan woman. She is having a hard time, he said, she dont know where the next meal is coming from or how to provide adequately for her children. this was supposes to be my first eid-ul adha and because its his first in 36 years without his parents and relatives he was annoyed of something little, said i ruined his eid, acted like im not his wife, and said to me he has the worst eid because of me, and for 2 days we argued so bad that now he said he is happier without me and he wouldnt miss me or my kisses(he said wallahi) . Its not just men. I do not understand. I loved it all. something permissible, so she should not object to it. The Law of Women Provides for Family and What is the Law of Marriage without Mahar 5 Benefits of Duha Prayer Muslim Should Aware, 5 Best Deeds in the Eyes of Allah Most Muslims can Apply, 5 Precious Benefits of Reciting Subhanallah You can Apply, 5 Good Deeds That Have the Same Reward as Hajj. MY FELLOW MUSLIMAHLETS GET CLOSE TO ALLAHSO WE CAN GET OUR HUSBANDS TO BE CLOSE TO US..INSHA ALLAH.. Im in agreement with the comments however one thing i feel is never addressed is what if the husband does not fulfill his basic duties as a husband/father? I would understand this rule if it was practiced under emergency circumstances such as after a war when there are a lot of widows who can't support their families, or in a society when women outnumber the men. AssalamuAlaykum Im happy,couze my husband big resfect me when it comes sex,if he want and idont like make sex w/ him,he just say ok fine but he is not angry 2 me..thans 4 the nice topics n adviceAllah huakbar.. hmmm youre happy; but is he really happy? She took my hand and with tears in her eyes said: This is very hard for me, but I hope that we can be sisters her words broke my heart. my dear kar, When was the last time a man was questioned about his wifes happiness? Islam Q&A, You can ask your question on the website via this link: https://islamqa.info/en/ask, Password should contain small, capital letter and at least 8 characters long, Log in Some of the way we likes and some of we dont. It is illegal for any non-Muslim in India to have more than one wife. I met a Muslim man three years ago. No man likes sharing his woman or losing her to another man. Polygamy, Not My Problem- A Muslim Woman. We live in 2014 people, not 600 BC lol. dont expect him to remain content. but maybe you need to coax the poor little guy back into life, remember that little number he used to drive you crazy about all those years ago. He marry me just because he loves me but I only had one think in my heart for him hatred. Many Hindu religious personalities, according to their scriptures, had multiple wives. I needed to get out, to work and find a place of our own instead of living off the leftovers of others. Watch this emotional cartoon animation to see how a man married another woman without first divorcing his wife. JOIN US Facebook https://bit.ly/3yOap. Another first wife, `A'ishah, says: "My husband was quite plain about his intentions to marry a second wife. I firmly believe in equality, but realize men and women have different roles in the family. She accepted the practice of polygamy as part of her religion and when she fell in love with a married man, she was the one who suggested that she become his second wife. Yh im a girl and right now i wish i could punch u in your face!!!! He will not got to hell for taking another wife. assalam o alaikum, SUBHAN ALLAH thank u bro for sharing such a nice and meaning full message, very good job,JAZAK ALLAH,,,,,,,,and pray for me m searching a bride for me. Whatever Allaah makes easy for him d ring. First weeks were reat but now lot of times we argued really bad even fight. There sure is a lot of cherry picking about in the world in all sorts of areas of Islam, not just in relationships. There are some important rules that must be considered especially for husbands who want to do (married) again. Perfect for me, but he wants me to be his second wife. Kindly tell me what should I do and with what reference I can convince my parents. Thank you for making it clear, I was already shocked by the comments 0.0. Glad there are respectable men who actually follow the true Islam. Allahhu Akbar!!!!! Salam. The future marriage will be a happy one. How could ones condition change so drastically? Wife, lover, mother, doctor, housekeeper. Sometimes women refuse sex on the grounds of Ill health, pregnancy, childbirth etc. In Islam, marriage is a civil contract. A Muslim mans guide is the Prophet peace be upon him. Below is an explanation of one of the verses of the Quran. when we started talking, I made it very clear to him my thoughts of getting involved with a married man. I thought that no one could love her husband the way I loved mine, but she taught me the true meaning of unconditional love. Allaah says take time to let him know he exists in your your own busy self assertive, high achieving life of yours; dear muslim sister. Sex releases stress. whispers is to ask yourself the following questions and answer them Now move from in front of the television and go make me a sandwich. You should note that it is not permissible for a woman to we can support and help them without sharing our husband. hello I am reading your article now in 2017. India has more male population than female due to female foeticide and infanticide. Why do you think men like buying women gifts? Where are the ahadith for this? As messed up as that sounds why didnt you leave him in the 1st year? For this reason, several scholars encourage a Muslim man to marry only one wife at a time, in order to protect himself from such a trial and potential punishment. We need to understand the depth of the issue. 4. 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